Solve The Problems - Part 3

TRASH 'EM OUT!!

How far people believe with symbol? We can see most of us tent to believe the symbol more towards the true intention of something. A symbol is also show the status or level of someone or something. Actually a symbol is a symbol itself, no less or more. In solving the problems, big or small we sometimes need these type of booster to help us to motivate ourselves to settle it down.

Take the wedding ring or engagement ring for example. People look it as the symbol of owning or possessing the love of ours. But the fact is, the relationship itself is the true meaning among the all. If you love somebody and purpose to the girl or a boy and give a ring to them, do the ring is really the thing? The ring is useless without the relationship either wedding or engagement. Now, we can clearly see how symbol give a big impact just to reaffirm to something.

This we would do to solve the problem. Write names of people that have give you the hard time or problem that still unresolved. Burn it. Yes! BURN IT. Believe it. But remember! The problem is yet not settle but IT WILL!! This type of motivation give you more "positive charge" to overcome the problem.

I've tried it myself, and I found it very soothing and relieving. It feel as I was free from a death sentence. Apart from that I always remind myself to work upon the problem. It is we to choose not the problem. So choose now or never!!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I miss my old time. My old life. How the old time can be very nostalgic now. Every single story happen in my life make me a new person I'm. When I looked back at my old diary, or school's year book, i do wonder where are now my dearly friends.

Miss Rozyrah Ahmad Ramly (my English Language teacher when I'm in form 5) said "Friend is like pearl. First they are just the sand enters the oyster. It cause the oyster to irritate. Then after a long time being, it the filthy sand turn into a very beautiful precious pearl."

That is how friend are. They enter our life, give us problems of theirs then after time to time the friendship were so valuable and can never be replace.

How could I forget all my friends in that school (Sekolah Menengah Sains Teluk Intan@SEMESTI). Everyone of them etched in my very own heart. Yassin, Taufiq, Amir Fazwan, Fauzy, Hafizi, Rahim, Faizuddin, Kamal, Hafeez, Hafizuddin, Shahirah, Athirah, Naimah, Wirdah, Nabila, Fatinah and all my lovely friends from 21st Batch. Most of them challenged me as a friend must but when they defended me, they show me the quality of a true friend. They stood what is right although it is against my will just to show me the right choice in my life as well when they stood foe me. I share laughter and cries with them. To be who I'm now, it is them whom lend a hand. I miss them with all my heart....

New place, new friend. But it is hard to say because I'm yet not see the true colour of them. It is time that can value a friendship. As time goes by, the value of friendship will elevate (for me I'm quite sure). Sometimes when I watched "MERLIN" the TV series from BBCE, I said to myself, do i have a friendship like Merlin, Arthur, Morgana and Guinevere? (based the TV series). One day, perhaps.....

Solve The Problems - Part 2

KNOW YOURSELF

The basic rule of SOLVING PROBLEM to know who we are. We must know what are our ability, strength, specialty and as well as our bad side. By knowing all this traits we can analyze ourselves and make a good decision how to solve the problem. Other reason we should know who we are is because we can optimize or boost the "function" in ourselves. I would like to tell you a story so you can make this clear.

On a very long drought, when the water is hardly found, an old crow were flying looking for some water. Because of his oldness he was left behind by the other birds since all of them are migrating to find other place that have water. Suddenly he found a bottle of water stuck between two rocks. He then, look at the bottle and try to drink it by putting his beck into the mouth of the bottle. It was hopeless. His beck was too big and the mouth of the bottle is too narrow. He can't reach the water. The old crow then think how could he could drink from the bottle. Suddenly he get an idea! He try to collect some small rocks and put it into the bottle. As the rock were put into the bottle, the water level rises. At last, the old crow can drink the water from the bottle to overcome the thirstiness.

Try to look at the old crow. Look at his weakness when he try to drink from the bottle. He have a big beck that can't fit into the mouth of the bottle. But try to know who he was. He was a BIRD. The old crow then try to use his specialty as a bird to manipulate the situation and problem. He collect small rocks by his "too big" beck so that he can make the water level rises so he can drink.

This is how we know ourselves. Take a pen and a piece of paper. List all the weakness that you have. Then list your strength. Be honest to yourself. No one know if you are lying but you know it. Put it neat to your bed so you can see it every time you walk into the room. Analyze all the strength and the weakness. Never feel down when you list more weakness that the strength. It is normal.

Remember, problems is not an opportunity to turn a blind eye or to run away. Face it! Embrace it! Solve it! Conquer it!

Solve The Problems - Part 1

Life was never as easy as Fairy Tale. After some obstacle and pain, met with the suitable soul mate and SNAP!! "They live happily ever after". The End. However the reality is more hard and attempting. Some may drive away all the problems easily while some struggle so hard. The more the conflict the interesting your life are.

When I face my own conflict in my life I try to look it very positively. Try to change the point in to a better point of view. For instance when I failed an exam I tried to look it as my opportunity to change my style of study. To do so, we must compel ourselves to look it positively. In every problems occur try to find the positive value. Look for the turning point because every problems occur just to give us the "point". Believe me, it is giving us a clear hint about the "point" .Up to us whether to take it or not

The problem and conflict also an experience to us as we try to overcome it. Whether we manage to solve it or not, it will dissolve and become a part of our very own chapter of our life. Each one of it, will make us a better person, more mature and more open minded. For example, if you were breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, the next time you are you will be more careful and mature to deal with the relationship.

Most book in the book store about psychology or how deal our problem offer some way that sometime cost us a lot of money such as go for a holiday, or second honeymoon, or a moving to a new environment (some make excuses to get a new house which is very pocket flattening). But today, I try my best to give away all the magical solution that will cost you all is your guts, cooperation, commitment and as well as changing the habit.

It is not easy to change but together we try and strive as we make ourselves the better person. To realize this may take time maybe weeks, months, or even year. But to see the result I may say "Satisfaction Guaranteed".

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